Timeline

To assist you, we have included a checklist of the deadlines
relating to your BAR/BAT Mitzvah that will help you understand the BAR/BAT Mitzvah
process. Because each student is unique, this is a general timeline and
you can expect the exact timing to be slightly different.

 Three years before entering program

  • Meet minimum membership and STaRS enrollment
    requirement by keeping membership and enrollment current

 End of 5th Grade Year

  • If membership and enrollment are current, Bar/Bat
    Mitzvah service date is assigned
  • Read the B’nei Mitzvah Parent’s Handbook
  • Acquire The Torah: A Modern Commentary, by
    W.G. Plaut, revised edition, copyright 2005, 2006 by URJ Press
  • Begin required Shabbat service attendance

 18-10 Months before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service

  • Student’s Hebrew proficiency level assessed (tutoring
    may be recommended
  • Attend Bar/Bat Mitzvah Family Class
  • Choose 12-16 verses of the week’s Torah portion to
    chant
  • Choose and hire a liturgical soloist
  • Decide upon and reserve the location for your
    celebration
  • Attend Bar/Bat Mitzvah Family Class
  • If desired, choose and hire caterer, photographer, and
    other services
  • Begin Mitzvah project
  • If planning to hold an evening party at CST, make your
    reservation!

9-6 Months before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service

  • Student begins individual tutoring
  • Student begins work with Rabbi on d’var TorahG
  • Prepare guest list and order/create
    invitations        
  • Continue Mitzvah project
  • Student should be practicing daily 15-20 minutes

 5-3 Month before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service

  • Complete d’var Torah
  • 4 months is the hard deadline to make reservation of
    CST facilities for your Shabbat dinner, Kiddush lunch, or evening party
  • Tuition payments must be current

8-6 WEEKS before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service

  • All financial accounts with Congregation Shomrei Torah
    including membership, and tuition must be current
  • Schedule three service rehearsals (by calling Denise)
  • Schedule service details meeting (by calling Leira)
  • Submit photo and short article for The Voice
  • Schedule meeting with Denise to go over facilities use

 4-2 Weeks before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service

  • Attend three rehearsals
  • Attend service details meeting
  • Turn in completed pulpit honors form to Program
    Coordinator
  • Meet with Denise to go over facilities use
  • Complete arrangements with
    caterer/florist/photographer etc.
  • Be sure to provide
    caterer/florist/photographer etc. with CST policies
  • Pay facilities use fees

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