To assist you, we have included a checklist of the deadlines
relating to your BAR/BAT Mitzvah that will help you understand the BAR/BAT Mitzvah
process. Because each student is unique, this is a general timeline and
you can expect the exact timing to be slightly different.
Three years before entering program
- Meet minimum membership and STaRS enrollment
requirement by keeping membership and enrollment current
End of 5th Grade Year
- If membership and enrollment are current, Bar/Bat
Mitzvah service date is assigned - Read the B’nei Mitzvah Parent’s Handbook
- Acquire The Torah: A Modern Commentary, by
W.G. Plaut, revised edition, copyright 2005, 2006 by URJ Press - Begin required Shabbat service attendance
18-10 Months before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
- Student’s Hebrew proficiency level assessed (tutoring
may be recommended - Attend Bar/Bat Mitzvah Family Class
- Choose 12-16 verses of the week’s Torah portion to
chant - Choose and hire a liturgical soloist
- Decide upon and reserve the location for your
celebration - Attend Bar/Bat Mitzvah Family Class
- If desired, choose and hire caterer, photographer, and
other services - Begin Mitzvah project
- If planning to hold an evening party at CST, make your
reservation!
9-6 Months before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
- Student begins individual tutoring
- Student begins work with Rabbi on d’var TorahG
- Prepare guest list and order/create
invitations - Continue Mitzvah project
- Student should be practicing daily 15-20 minutes
5-3 Month before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
- Complete d’var Torah
- 4 months is the hard deadline to make reservation of
CST facilities for your Shabbat dinner, Kiddush lunch, or evening party - Tuition payments must be current
8-6 WEEKS before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
- All financial accounts with Congregation Shomrei Torah
including membership, and tuition must be current - Schedule three service rehearsals (by calling Denise)
- Schedule service details meeting (by calling Leira)
- Submit photo and short article for The Voice
- Schedule meeting with Denise to go over facilities use
4-2 Weeks before Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
- Attend three rehearsals
- Attend service details meeting
- Turn in completed pulpit honors form to Program
Coordinator - Meet with Denise to go over facilities use
- Complete arrangements with
caterer/florist/photographer etc. - Be sure to provide
caterer/florist/photographer etc. with CST policies - Pay facilities use fees
